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100			_aSmall, Mario L. Brant, Kristina and Fekete, Maleah _949151
245			_aThe avoidance of strong ties
260			_aAmerican Sociological Review
300			_a89(4), Aug, 2024: p.615-649
520			_aTheorists have proposed that a value of close friends and family—strong ties—is the ability to confide in them when facing difficult issues. But close relationships are complicated, and recent studies report that people sometimes avoid strong ties when facing personal issues. How common is such avoidance? The question speaks to theoretical debates over the nature of “closeness” and practical concerns over social isolation. We develop an approach and test it on new, nationally representative data. We find that, when facing personal difficulties, adult Americans are as likely to avoid as to talk to close friends and family. Most avoidance is not actively reflected on but passively enacted, and, contrary to common belief, is not limited to either specific network members or particular topics, depending instead on the conjunction of member and topic. Building on Simmel, we propose that a theory of the fundamental need to conceal and reveal helps account for the findings. We suggest that there is no more empirical justification for labeling strong ties as those who are trusted than for labeling them as those who are avoided. In turn, isolation might be less a matter of having no intimates than of having repeatedly to avoid them.- Reproduced https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/00031224241263602
650			_a Avoidance, Strong ties, Intimates, Social network, Isolation. _949152
773			_aAmerican Sociological Review
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